Archive for May, 2009

An article about a girl’s perfect (school) attendance grabbed my attention. Seriously; wow! And in the meantime a high school elects a gay student for prom queen.

And more on gender bending: HBO aired a documentary called “Kick like a girl“.

AfterEllen.com also ran an article on a comic book called “No girls allowed“, which is a kid’s book about women throughout history who dressed up as men to achieve their goals and dreams (and succeeded). I ordered my copy a few days ago. Do check out the trailer on the site.

TransLondon’s announced it’s boycotting London Pride, after trans women were denied access to female toilets at last year’s Pride and one was allegedly sexually assaulted. I’m not transgendered, but no stranger to what I’d call gender politics either. I suppose unisex toilets are out of the question?

Hillary Clinton seems to beat Obama to the punch when she notified the state department of forthcoming changes for gays and lesbians. It’s about time if you ask me.

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Doesn’t that look awesome? Read *here* why it didn’t make the Guinness Book of Records. Seriously, people… How lame is that?

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Saturday, May 30. I had been looking forward to this day from the moment it was clear The Boss was going to play Pinkpop.

Just to get this straight: the name “Pinkpop” has nothing to do with the color or gay pride, but all with the Dutch word for Pentecost - “Pinksteren”. The 3-day festival is traditionally (2009 marked its 40th birthday) held over Pentecost weekend (including Monday).

UK band Noisettes kicked off the day, and they did sound like a party band with their upbeat songs. Other bands that played were King of the Day, Just Jack, Dr. Lektroluv, Me First and the Gimme Gimmes (who also did some hilarious renditions of “Desperado” and John Denver’s “Country roads”), Elbow (despite some really good songs, I got bored after about half an hour), Chris Cornell (his new stuff doesn’t appeal to me at all - I’ll remain a Soundgarden fan - but he still has one of the best voices in rock music. And the fact he’s also good looking - mom noticed this too - is a bonus. I saw the drummer and one of the guitarists strolling the area afterwards, with security), and The Killers (mom and I watched them while we relaxed in the late afternoon sun).

The Boss started on time, with 60,000 people (most of them fans) eagerly waiting. He’s clearly happy to be here, the weather’s been wonderful the entire day (I returned home with a significantly darker skin), and he and the E Street Band launch into Badlands. I wondered who the young dude playing drums was; it certainly wasn’t Max Weinberg. And the lady taking Patti Scialfa’s place isn’t his wife, but Sister Susan (with the E Street Band since the Seeger Sessions, if I recall correctly). His site posted the set list earlier today:

Badlands
Out In The Street
She’s The One
Outlaw Pete
Radio Nowhere
Working On A Dream
Seeds
Johnny 99
The Ghost Of Tom Joad
Raise Your Hand
From Small Things
Trapped
I’m On Fire
Thunder Road
Waiting On A Sunny Day
The Promised Land
Lonesome Day
The Rising
Born To Run

Tenth Avenue Freeze-Out
Land Of Hope And Dreams
American Land
Glory Days
Dancin’ In The Dark.

The Boss had his ceremonial speech during “Working on a dream” and treated the audience to a couple of sentences in Dutch (watch the video - it was aired on Dutch TV, as were “Badlands” and “Born to run”). “From Small Things”, “Trapped”, and “I’m on Fire” were all requests by the audience (like they’ve played The Clash’s “London Calling” and “Mony mony” by Tommy James and the Shondells in the US). It turns out the young man with the pretty hair is Max’s 19-year-old son Jay. Without being biased, I can say that even before The Boss introduced him to the audience I was impressed by his drumming skills; Jay is doing a really good job filling his dad’s shoes. Lucky dude!

Brandon Flowers, The Killers’s singer, got invited back to the stage to sing “Thunder Road”. I don’t think I’ve ever seen him that shy. A little girl got to sing the chorus to “Waiting on a sunny day”, encouraged by The Boss. She got a huge cheer of the crowd at the and, and I’m sure she’ll never forgot that moment. And a lady carrying a huge sign that said “Dutch Courtney Cox” got pulled on stage at the end of “Dancing in the dark” for a dance with The Boss :D Awesome, eh!

My mom recognized most of the songs and had a great time watching Bruce Springsteen and the E Street Band. She thought it was super cool to see a 59-year-old man entertain such a diverse crowd (I’m sure he won over new heart that night!). The younger crowd and non-fans were half expecting to hear “Born in the USA” but I knew better: The Boss was here to party. He was scheduled to play till 22:30 hrs, but I knew he wasn’t going to stop then. I was right. The party went well into overtime and nobody seemed to mind (not even the organizer of this anual event; there’s no denying it is special to have The Boss celebrate a festival’s 40th birthday).

This time I didn’t have goosebumps like the last time I saw them play (December 2007), but I had a lump in my throat making singing along a hard task. I certainly hope this wasn’t my last Springsteen concert!

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Here are a couple of new promo photos of Torchwood season 3.

The show will air on BBC America mid-summer (July). The third season consists of only five, one-hour episodes, set to run on consecutive nights in the UK. BBC America will follow the same schedule, making the broadcasts an event for all you Torchwood fans (think miniseries). I’m certainly thrilled!

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I recently blogged about the NCIS spin off - which had Louise Lombard as the female lead. Well, scratch that; she’s gone AWOL, and I don’t know who will be recast in her place. Hm :(

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Gay Moroccan author Abdellah Taia tells all: “Taia has defied Moroccan society’s don’t-ask, don’t-tell attitude toward homosexuality — and prison sentences that are still on the books in the North African kingdom — to write five autobiographical novels about growing up poor and gay in the northern coastal city of Sale. The novels, peppered with sexually explicit passages, have catapulted him to fame in his native country and made him the de-facto poster child of its budding gay rights movement.”

In the meantime in the UK:

EastEnders is to screen a storyline involving a Muslim character who has a gay affair.

New character Syed Masood, a Muslim property developer who has a girlfriend, is to fall for openly gay Christian Clarke.

The couple will be shown kissing and 24-year-old Masood, played by Marc Elliott, finds his “religion and sexual feelings in conflict”. But the Muslim Public Affairs Committee say that the BBC should have a “normal friendly Muslim character.”

Last year, the BBC received more than 150 complaints over a gay kiss between Christian and Lee Thompson which was shown before the 9pm watershed.

Diederick Santer, the EastEnders executive producer, said BBC1 soap’s production team had researched the plot while working with academics, gay Muslim support groups and the Muslim Council of Great Britain. He said: “We’ve always tried to make EastEnders reflect modern life in multicultural Britain and we’ve always told social issue stories relevant to our diverse audience.

“This isn’t a moral tale of right or wrong; it’s very much a human interest story where a young man struggles with the conflict between his faith and his feelings. To all intents and purposes, Syed’s a ‘good’ Muslim man: he doesn’t drink, smoke or engage in sex before marriage. But he struggles with his sexuality when he finds himself drawn to Christian and he believes this goes against his faith. This is not a story about Syed and Christian’s physical relationship – we don’t see anything beyond one kiss. It’s more about the inner turmoil and conflict Syed endures trying to remain true to his faith while questioning his sexuality. Syed has already been ostracised from his family and community once and if he’s true to his heart he risks losing his family again.”

But Asghar Bokhari of the Muslim Public Affairs Committee said: “The Muslim community deserves a character that represents them to the wider public because Islamophobia is so great right now.

“There’s a lack of understanding of Muslims already and I think EastEnders really lost an opportunity to present a normal friendly Muslim character to the British public.”

A survey published last month showed that UK Muslims have significantly less tolerance for homosexuality than their French and German counterparts.

The poll, part of the the Gallup Coexist Index 2009, found that not one of the 1,001 British Muslims interviewed believed homosexual acts were morally acceptable.

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An excellent piece by Matchbox Twenty singer Rob Thomas at the Huffington Post on marriage equality:

“I’ve heard it said before, many times, that if two men or two women are allowed to join into a civil union together, why can’t they be happy with that and why is it so important that they call it marriage? In essence, what’s in a name?…A civil union has to do with death. It’s essentially a document that gives you lower taxes and the right to let your faux spouse collect your insurance when you pass away. A marriage is about life. It’s about a commitment. And this argument is about allowing people to have the right to make that commitment, even if it doesn’t make sense to you. Anything else falls under the category of ’separate but equal’ and we know how that works out.”

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Is that possible? According to Globe and Mail’s Micah Toub it is:

Excuse me, sir Please get off your bike.” I looked around and wondered, “Is he talking to me?” I was the only one on a bicycle, so I decided he must be.

“There’s no riding in this area,” the security guard shouted across the grounds of the Los Angeles County Museum of Art. I dismounted my rented hybrid bike and rolled it through Urban Light , an outdoor installation of 202 antique street lamps standing in lines like a manicured row of trees. Chris Burden’s large-scale work was what had drawn me in from the street as I pedalled down the Miracle Mile stretch of Wilshire Boulevard, which, with barely two feet of space between parked cars and moving traffic, is not a miracle at all on two wheels. Of course, that makes sense, since the historic strip was developed and designed in the 1930s specifically to be cruised by automobile.

I had planned on this partly cloudy day – what my grandmother who lives in the San Fernando Valley later described as a “storm” – to spend a day touring from posh Beverly Hills east to edgy Echo Park, without a windshield ever separating me from the flora, fauna and architecture of Los Angeles. I just hoped I didn’t get mowed down by a Lexus before I reached my destination.

After I had my picture taken in front of Prada on Rodeo Drive (I had to wait in line behind a woman whose poodle was wearing sunglasses), I didn’t see another cyclist for a good 20 minutes. This is, after all, the undisputed capital of car culture. And yet cyclists are out there; as I discovered, Los Angeles is indeed bikeable, and the city’s growing community of cyclists is fighting to overcome what one activist I talked to, Ron Milam, called a “perception problem.”

Or, as he eloquently put it: “People think if they ride a bike here, they’re going to die.”

Milam, a 33-year-old native Angeleno (who sports, appropriately enough, a handlebar mustache), founded the Los Angeles County Bicycle Coalition 10 years ago with some friends. Back then, he fought to get the county to fund the creation of bicycle lanes, and won.

Still an advocate for cycling in Los Angeles, Milam has witnessed first-hand the growth of a bike culture in the city.

But this forefather of L.A.’s bike movement admits that the city famous for its labyrinthine freeways and gridlock traffic is only rideable if you’re choosy about your routes. “The best streets for people to ride on are often ones that they don’t even know the name of,” he said.

As a tourist, I knew very few street names, but I learned quickly to ride on smaller residential streets if there was no bike lane. Still, after consuming two chili dogs flooded in nacho cheese at the legendary Pink’s Hot Dogs, I had to head north on Fairfax Avenue, a busy four-lane thoroughfare. Remembering a tip I had learned from Milam, I took over a whole lane as I rode.

This was a tip echoed later that day when I talked to Kat Espino, a regular bike commuter. Although Espino says drivers in the city centre are used to seeing the odd bike messenger, as one heads to the outer reaches of L.A. County, they’ll treat you like an intruder. “In some communities in South Central Los Angeles, they’re not used to seeing cyclists on the side of the road and they honk at you and tell you to move over,” says Espino, who rides home 37 kilometres daily to Lakewood from the University of Southern California, where she works. “But I hold my ground and stay where I’m more visible and safer.”

Espino, who also fundraises and takes part in the seven-day AIDS LifeCycle ride that travels from San Francisco to Los Angeles each summer, says she plans her commute with the help of bike maps provided by the city online (see sidebar).

I wasn’t run over, or even honked at, as I headed toward the Hollywood Walk of Fame, but I was still relieved to make it to Hollywood Boulevard, which, though it doesn’t have a bike lane, is such a dizzyingly raucous scene that everything moves at a slow pace. I hopped on and off to do the usual tourist stuff – a picture of me with Michael J. Fox’s star, a picture of me with a Lucille Ball impersonator (who, in case you’re wondering, doesn’t own a bike because she says she gets her workout from dancing) – but I was heading eastward when my two-wheeled journey departed from the usual.

East of Western Avenue, after the stars of Hollywood Boulevard have faded, and where the number of cars whipping by outnumbers pedestrians at least tenfold, I gazed into the windows of stores in L.A.’s Little Thailand and Little Armenia.

The architecture left a lot to be desired – old, broken-down buildings that retained the sun-bleached letter traces of businesses past. In a car, this less glitzy strip would fly by blandly while you changed the radio station, but I took the opportunity to stop at a restaurant called Hollywood Taron to chat with a couple guys chilling on the restaurant’s patio. Aaron Graham, a recent grad from the University of Washington, told me that the two of them were on a road trip down the west coast.

“He likes to find hidden gems like this in cities,” Mr. Graham said of his buddy, Ilya Golotavy. “You know, places run by first-generation immigrants.” I went inside and ordered my first-ever lahmajune – the Armenian take on pizza, a snack I enjoyed on the patio as the sun finally broke through the clouds.

Heading onward, as I biked past hipsters lunching at cafés along Sunset Boulevard near Silver Lake, I noticed that Los Angeles has a smell, and it’s not just the exhaust. The scent is a combination of a faint but permeating flowery perfume and baking tortillas.

“Bicycling becomes a process of discovery,” Milam had told me, explaining that biking in L.A. often forces you to see parts of the city you would never get to in a car. After consuming the last carrot cake muffin at Delilah Bakery on Echo Park Boulevard, my planned final stop, I continued on without consulting a map. And as I happened upon MacArthur Park in the Hispanic neighbourhood of Westlake, where old men and families gathered to play and watch the orange light of the setting sun illuminate the downtown skyline in the distance, I knew what he meant.

That night, I was escorted back to my hotel in West Hollywood by 300 bicyclists who had met up downtown for a Critical Mass ride. At a stop, I got talking to a guy who rode a six-foot-tall bike while wearing a tutu and an army jacket. I asked him if biking in the streets of L.A. was a daily battle against cars.

“It’s more of a beginner bike thing that people think it’s a war zone and that it’s really dangerous,” Matthew Simmons, a 30-year-old paparazzo, told me. “When I first started riding, I got into some confrontations with motorists, but after a while you tend to get used to what pisses cars off and avoid it.” And what is that? Mainly, he says, if you’re moving too slow, they’ll yell at you to ride on the sidewalk – which he points out is legal in Los Angeles. “But that’s sort of reserved for the really old dudes on mountain bikes that ride 20 miles to work on the sidewalk.”

Pulling over at North La Cienega Boulevard, the steep street that would deliver me to my bed, I became once again a lone rider, rolling past an unending chain of steel carriages. Glancing back at the distant darkness though, where the bike horde had already disappeared from view, I didn’t feel alone.

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Pack your bags

Where to rent bikes
Beverly Hills Bike Shop 854 South Robertson Blvd.; (310) 275-2453; bhbikeshop.com. Hybrids $25 (U.S.) a day, five days $100; road bikes from $50 a day. The shop lends hybrids for city touring and will soon bring in a stock of road bikes.
Col de Sag Coldesag.com ; 323-254-1043. Call it bespoke bicycle touring: This company does everything to set up private bike tours short of actually pedalling. They can set up a romantic ride for two through the city ending with a picnic ($150 (U.S.) including food).
Perry’s Beach Café and Rentals 310-939-0000; www.perryscafe.com. Bikes from $9 (U.S.) per hour, $25 per day. With eight locations along the coast, this mini-chain is a good place to get set up for your boardwalk beach ride. They also offer guided tours for groups of three or more. [-rule-]

Where to stay
Andaz West Hollywood 8401 Sunset Blvd.; 323-656-1234; westhollywood.hyatt.com . From $223. This second edition of Hyatt’s new boutique brand was updated this January from its previous incarnation as the “Riot Hyatt,” where bands like Led Zeppelin came to crash after playing the Sunset Strip. Redesigned with elegance and fitted with eye-catching art, amenities include a rooftop pool with ambient music and daybeds, and a hotel restaurant run by French-trained chef Sebastien Archambault. [-rule-]

More information
Bicycle routes and transit In Los Angeles County 

http://metro.net/riding_metro/maps/images/la_bike_map.pdf
Los Angeles County Bicycle Coalition
http://la-bike.org
Cyclists Inciting Change through Live Exchange (C.I.C.L.E.)
www.cicle.org
Midnight Ridazz cycle activists
www.midnightridazz.com

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I found Serena Ryder’s cover of Kylie Minogue’s “Slow” earlier today. I’m not a fan of Kylie’s music (it just doesn’t appeal to me), but I actually like this version better than the breathy original. Oh, and the first comment posted just cracked me up :D

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My brother swung by for dinner earlier this afternoon and was kind enough to take a couple of pics of the new tattoo I got last Saturday. Their healing very well :D

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Moments ago the California Supreme Court has upheld Proposition 8 but ruled that the 18,000+ same-sex marriages already valid in the state will remain so.

In the 6-1 decision, the judges rejected an argument from gay marriage supporters that the ban was unconstitutional but unanimously ruled that the 18,000 gay couples who married while gay marriage was legal will stay wed.

The only judge who wanted Prop 8 to be struck down was Justice Carlos R. Moreno, who was the court’s sole Democrat. Gay activists had said that the ban revised the California constitution’s equal protection clause to the point of needing Legislative approval.

The ruling said: “In a sense, petitioners’ and the attorney general’s complaint is that it is just too easy to amend the California constitution through the initiative process. But it is not a proper function of this court to curtail that process; we are constitutionally bound to uphold it.”

The crowd of gay marriage supporters who watched the hearing live on screens outside the San Francisco courthouse chanted “Shame on you” as the decision was announced.

Gay marriage was legalised in California in May 2008. However, Prop 8 defined marriage as being between a man and a woman last November. Supporters of gay marriage argued the initiative was unconstitutional and discriminatory. The Supreme Court examined whether a voting majority can overrule minority rights previously recognised by the court, as it had previously declared that gays and lesbians have a constitutional right to marry.

Gay marriage advocates are expected to hold protests today against the ruling.  California allows gay couples to have civil partnerships but activists say these are not equal to marriage.

“There is no ‘underlying’ principle more basic to our Constitution than that the equal protection clause protects the fundamental rights of minorities from the will of the majority.” - Justice Moreno, the lone dissenting justice

Read Mayor Gavin Newsom’s statement *here*

Seriously, those who voted “yes” on Prop 8 should answer this: why would ANYONE willingly CHOOSE to be part of a minority who is persecuted?

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